Hi Boyde, Welcome to the forum
I have the diesel, and get about 35mph around town, and closer to 50mph on the motorway, but that's with careful (read: boring!) driving at 60mph - I am having a massive conflict with having a fantastic 2.2l, and then only travelling at 60mph with it
I believe the diesel has enough torque for towing, so that shouldn't be a problem (saying that, I have never towed, so take my advice what it is!)
The rear window is bonkers, but you get used to it - parking is a doddle for me, and I don't miss having rear parking sensors.
The boot is big enough for me with all six seats up, and five of us plus luggage (three kids 6 and under, so that includes a pushchair and so on), but having the flexibility of folding down and re-shuffling the kids to get any extra luggage in is a real bonus.
Regarding the price, I guess all I have to add is you can choose a high-mileage, and get it cheaper, or a low-mileage and pay a bit more. I have a lot of faith in Honda, and went for a high-mileage. What I would advise, however, is getting one with as many toys as possible - it'll help selling it on, and it's always nice having a few toys to play with
Oh, and by the way -- are you sure about the cup-holders? It should be tucked
into the dash, just to the left and below the hand-brake...
Good luck, and let us know how you get on.